I am Drowning!
Lately, a priority shift has thrown me.
I have a good friend who is a wonderful mom. She has more than six kids and is a wonderful writer. She can edit during the day and free write when they all in bed at night.
I really admire and look up to her. I tried her way. I crashed and burned. I am not her. I can't be her. I am me.
There are things I've noticed slipping as I did those things (editing during the day rather than night...) I know I can still stop what I am doing and attend to the needs of my kids as they need me, but I really expect more from . . . me.
Yes, I am there for them. I talk to them about any pressures. I make sure I lead by example. Not do as I say and not as I do type thing. I teach them spiritual things. Temporal things. All things. We have scripture study every morning, family home evening, prayer . . .
But I have fallen short. I am not there for their interests.
My son is recent WeBeLos. But I haven't cracked open the book to read and help him with his goals like I used to. My daughter is very needy. She loves to read with me. She loves it when I make up stories about her and Prince Spicy. My other daughter needs me with her Personal Progress. And maybe just to hang out with her and read while she reads. My little boy needs me to be insistent when it comes to learning speech words for preschool.
It's the little things, you know? Those are the most important things. And I've been failing them. All because I've decided to emulate that good friend. I am not her. I am me. I need to press the reset button and start all over again.
I need to give myself permission to know that it's okay to be me.
Life is too sacred. Too precious. Too fleeting to let Goliaths take
control of ourselves. I need to remember that all the time so that I won't forget.
How do you do it? How do you meet your family's needs without leaving out the little things?